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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 07:50

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why is my ping so high in 1 Roblox game but not the other ones? I am also not laggy in my own private server. What is happening?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How do you get people to follow your Quora Space?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Procrastinates a lot.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why do entitled people demand that I pick up after my doggo when he goes to the bathroom? Do they not know that doggy doo decomposes & feeds the plants?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Ask yourself:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Riddle: How do budget cuts, DEI hires, and empty reservoirs, turn the bluest, most Democrat city Red?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What are "demonic attacks" and how can one tell when they're happening to them, or someone else? How would one go about dealing with it?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What is your review of "Regent", episode 5 of Season 2 House of the Dragon?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What I need from you?

If you lived in South Africa, would you support nuclear power as a solution to the country's energy woes?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Are evolutionists giving evolution a bad name by claiming humans started off as shrews?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why do women change that much more with age?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

That's it for today.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Making more friends is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.